ah yes a topic about sex and virgins!

ok so this is just my thoughts, but i figured i get it out there about love and lust. they can be mixed up and confused for eachother. love is when you would bend over backwards for the other person and do whatever the other wanted its a mutual feeling, instead of one being whipped for one both are whipped for eachother. now lust can easily be confused with love but its later found out it was all about the sex. mainly one person is whipped for the other while the other cuts them off. love isnt all about the sex dont get me wrong sex is important in a realationship as its a type of bond but in love its not all the two want. lust is usually found with virgins they want to get laid so bad and think they love the other person when all they wanted to do wasd have sex with that person which i feel is why most of those "i lost my virginity to that person" realationships fail, its also very commonly found among teenagers. now im not saying all of these realationships fail because some of those virgin type realationships were not only about the sex because they had the will to overcome the sexdrive of the realationship and see what they had in common instead of damn i really want to get laid. women usually say oh well all men do is think with their second head, thius is sometimes true, key word sometimes. but women also think with sex alot too hence forth pushing their man around keeping them "whipped". now you may say thats not true but think about it really think. anyway when you do find a couple who is whipped for eachother most of the time, not all, and if the realationship has what sex maybe once a week, that to me is love. given even if theres sex everynight and those two still manage to look past the sex its still love to me. dont let that love burn and diue and if it didnt work out it wasnt meant to be theres still plenty of fish in the sea and youll find your love of your life.